Kentucky Law Blog

Spouses recognize cases of infidelity during shelter at home

The challenges that couples face during this pandemic would have seemed unthinkable when they took their marriage vows. Less surprising, however, is that spouses are learning more about their spouse by spending much of the last few months in the same living space. While some have reconnected and revitalized their relationship, all this togetherness prompted others to realize that their partner cheats on them. Observant spouses often can recognize the signs of infidelity, but the unique circumstances of current living-work arrangements add a new twist to the old behavior. Signs of infidelity...

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Celebrating Father’s Day in 2020

This year’s Father’s Day will be like no other thanks to the coronavirus pandemic. But setting that aside for a moment, it can also be a delicate dance for the parents, mainly if this is the first since the divorce or the working relationship between the parents is strained. Regardless of how an ex-wife feels, it is essential to support Father’s Day and encourage the children to recognize it as a chance to celebrate dad. Inspiring handmade gifts made by young hands can be cherished mementos while helping older kids with the shopping can help steady the family ship – it is an opportunity to...

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Children have their own worries during a divorce

Even the most civil of divorces can still cause a certain amount of anxiety in the kids. The parents are working out the details of dividing assets, determining custody and parenting plans, child support as well as many other details. These all add up to significant changes in the lives of children who want nothing more than going back to normal. Well-intentioned parents may wish to share details about the divorce, perhaps in hopes of enabling the children to understand what is happening and why. This information should be age-appropriate and should not dwell on blaming one parent....

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Use caution when posting online during divorce

We have reached the point where folks share what they ate for dinner,  where they went with friends and major triumphs and trials. It certainly enables us all to feel more connected, but this can work against those getting a divorce. It is often best to exercise discretion when posting online. One reason for doing this is that many may wish to keep their private lives private. It is also important to remember that one’s digital footprint will be scrutinized by the opposing party and even the court during the information for the discovery phase of the filing. Looking for clues online...

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Domestic violence cause for concern amid quarantine

The silver lining amid this quarantine is that it is an opportunity for families to spend time together. However, there has been concern by some that the quarantine could lead to an uptick in domestic violence in homes that are not safe for family members and even children. This is born out by data elsewhere in the world: France has seen a 30% increase in reports of domestic violence. Here in the United States, New York, Washington, DC, and San Francisco have also seen a rise in reports of domestic violence. Moreover, Twitter founder and CEO Jack Dorsey and pop singer Rihanna have donated...

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Coparenting a challenge during a pandemic

Kentucky families with divorced parents face a variety of challenges. In the past, it usually revolved around parents managing the family schedule of pick-ups and drop-offs as well as maintaining clear avenues of communication with an ex-spouse. It has gotten considerably more complicated and stressful in light of the COVID-19 pandemic. The needs of each family are different, as are the demands of their jobs. Suddenly, it may not make sense that the children live with a medical professional or other employees who must still report for a public-facing duty. Many parents have worked out...

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Super-wealthy hiding assets from spouses using LLCs and trusts

The divorce of billionaire Texas couple Ed and Marie Bosarge made national headlines recently. This is common for the superrich when they divorce, but Ed Bosarge seems intent on leaving his wife of 30 years with comparatively little by legally hiding assets. Ed founded the high-volume stock trading company Quantlab Financial in 1998 (eight years after the couple was married) and became one of the wealthiest businessmen in Texas while buying 12 luxury properties around the world, including a private island in the Bahamas. After living alone at the couple’s mansion in Houston for four years,...

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What happens to student loans when the marriage ends?

In Kentucky, couples who are getting divorced often carry student loan debt. Many times, both spouses possess this type of debt. It is more common to graduate college indebted for years because of the cost of education. In the divorce process, the issue of which spouse is responsible for the debt repayments or how the couple is going to divide their debt often arises. Kentucky is not a community property state. This means that loans that one party owes are not presumed to be counted against the marital estate. The general rule that applies is that the party whose name is on the loan is the...

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Is your tech-savvy spouse cheating?

Technology has changed the way we live, do our jobs and interact with others. Today it is common for spouses to Tweet, Snapchat, message, Zoom, or use some new platform. This connectivity is great for keeping in touch with friends and family and can make it easier to balance a demanding home life and a job. It also makes it easier than ever for spouses or partners to cheat. Some in past decades may have contemplated infidelity but deemed it too risky in tightknit communities. Now the temptation proves to be too easy for some with several dating apps out there, some even marketed as good for...

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Active coparenting takes planning

Divorce is one of the most challenging experiences that many will face. It involves hundreds of decisions that range from where to live after the divorce to small but essential things like keeping a favorite coffee mug. Few choices, however, will be more critical, far-reaching and stressful than crafting a parenting plan that works for the children as well as the parents. The needs of each family are different, and ideally, the parents can sit down and work out a fair and equitable coparenting agreement with shared decision-making on matters related to the children as well as both parents...

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